Lesbians / Gay females :
- Generally, lesbians can make love in almost as many ways as heterosexual couples do although sex toys do play a large part of their sex lives.
- Oral sex with one another.
- Oral sex at the same time with each other in the '69' position
- Sharing a double dildo (in both vaginas, both anuses, or a combination) while masturbating or not.
- Scissoring, where they touch their genitals together and or rub them.
- Mutual masturbation.
- Strap-on sex, where a harness equipped with a dildo is worn by one woman and she penetrates the vagina, anus, or both.
- Speaking from personal experience and as a lesbian sexual health advisor, most lesbian couples enjoy a far more enriched sex life than most hetero couples due to the levels of intimacy attainable by women and a greater knowledge of how to satisfy someone of the same gender.
- Well you can get a strap on penis and have fun that way!
- Don't agree! You don't need to strap on a penis! If you're really good all you need is your tongue and fingers. At least most lesbians think it's better.
- I agree with the above, your tongue and fingers can do everything. Toys can add to the fun, but are not necessary.
- Most girls don't have orgasms with penetration. Strap-ons are unnecessary. Sex would be anything that makes the other person have an orgasm.
- Hands, fingers, feet, clitorises, breasts, anuses, lips + toys: mix in some creativity, and orgasms ensue.
- Sex is really anything that two people do that brings sexual pleasure to each other.
Gay males :
- Like lesbians, gay men can make love just like any heterosexual couple can. This can range anywhere from oral sex to anal sex.
- Oral sex with each other.
- Oral sex at the same time with each other in the '69' position
- Sharing a double dildo (in both anuses) while masturbating or not.
- Masturbating each other (a"hand job").
- Mutual masturbation - this can include manipulating their own genitals -- putting on a show for their partner, or manipulating each other's genitals.
- Anal sex with finger(s) or dildo.
- Anal sex (insert the penis into the anus and thrust - should always be done with a condom and water-based lubricant),
- rub the genitals against each other (frottage),
- lick each other's genitals or anuses
- suck each other's penises or testicles (care should be taken not to let the teeth come into contact as this can be painful and a condom should always be used). These are just some of the more common activities.
And for everyone :
- Safety first! You do not want to be one of those people who passes a sexually transmitted disease.
- Condoms should always be used, but most particularly for anal and oral sex (as mentioned in the above list).
- Dental dams should be used for analingus (licking each other's anuses).
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